Today's subject-du-jour, per yesternight's divine appointments, is manipulation. As an example, a gift may be freely given, with no strings attached, thus no expectations about the recipients' disposition of the gift. A "gift" given with any attached expectations, even as small as expecting a "Thank You" in return, is a manipulation. Whenever we either dominate (yang) or manipulate (yin) another, we are causing them to "make a choice" which would "go down" differently than without our influence, and that cause producing such effect in the other, results in them betraying their own soul truth, which is a harm to them, for which we are karmically liable.
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Faery blessings -- celeste