Eh? I'm somewhat unclear as to how your Gender Freedom Scale relates to your idea that masculine or feminine energy of past life experience accounts for why most homosexuals exist. Perhaps it plays a part, but I don't see the data to support such a statement, nor the correlation.

I also had a look at the page you reference:

http://www.kahealani.com/articles/gender_freedom.html

Angela Kahealani's page on Gender Freedom seems to promote bisexuality as a reaction to "the extreme overpopulation by the infestation of the species of humans." Infestation? Where? Africa, maybe? What do you suppose that's about? Whose children do you imagine she's referring to when she speaks of "infestation"?

I'd imagine that astral sex could be "wicked fun" when two beings are consenting to the engagement of such activity, meaning you are seeking an experience with someone you know, love, and trust and are somehow certain that you're both interfacing with one another and not some other dimensional being or etheric apparatus. However, a word of caution. Discussion databases like Astral Dynamics are full of accounts of the experiences of those who believed themselves to have engaged in sexual activity with celebrities, soul mates and such, but have really been participating in an energetic drain with some thing that's merely projecting an illusion of caring, mutual sexual exchange into your mind while siphoning energy from you through a connection with your stimulated etheric or astral being while at the same time creating a weakness, rift, or fissure in your etheric body to allow for easier future sync. These connections are often difficult to break and the encounters frequently turn foul or become violent when the participant begins to resent or resist these once welcomed "wicked" sexual advances. 

Even among abductees and those experiencing some form of heavy other-dimensional negative interference, astral sexual assault is a difficult subject to speak about. What clinical psychologist is equipped to discuss matters of sexual harassment and assault involving a non-human, non-physical being?

I'd like to share an except from my diary on December 2, 2007 and a quote I pulled from Karla Turner's book "Taken", which I'd been highlighting the night before:

December 2, 2007
It’s four o’clock in the morning. I was half asleep earlier and observing an attempt by some reptilian or other to occupy my mind while manipulating my body into what could have become a potentially embarrassing sexual response. There was only one I could actually “see” so there must have been another hidden from my sight operating whatever means they have available to affect a response from my body. It almost seems as if there was some type of vibration coming from somewhere that my body was responding to, through layers of shorts, a t-shirt, and pajamas, while my thoughts were otherwise occupied. I’ve been through all that before so I know what to expect. It’s just a negative programming or conditioning method to affect or reach me through my sexual identity.

From Karla Turner’s “Taken”, and the account of alien abductee Polly regarding her son:

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The objective seems to be separation not only from a desire to experience pleasure from one's own physical body, on this plane, in this existence, but further separation from one's sexual identity based on sexual orientation. Talk show circuits and religious camps are full of these men and women who have had their sexual identity deconstructed by themselves or the will of others and appear completely maladjusted and confused. This affront can be highly isolating so it's probably a good idea to use extreme caution when projecting what one chooses to allow as acceptable interaction with your etheric being. If one projects that sort of vague curiosity about matters such as sex on the astral plane, then one leaves him- or herself open and available to what may turn out to be an unwelcome and unwanted experience. Astral sex is frequently instigated when one is at least physically unaware, which constitutes a violation, to say the least.

The Service_To_Self and feeding response you present accounts for only a portion of the reasons why people experience astral or etheric sexual assault, as there are a variety of beings and entities populating the astral landscape other than reptilians. The key concepts among those such as reptilians who target particular beings, in my experience, is are separation, degradation, and isolation, and not so much to feed as to retard FRV.

I hope the reasons any gender or gender identifying with any number of identities exists is a lot more complex than a balance sheet of male vs. female past life incarnations. I don't mean to imply that you're suggesting there are, or aren't, but it just weirds me out when I read the attempts people make to easily define someone else's sexual identity, when the reasons people identify the way they do are just as varied as the beings themselves. I don't know if you're gay or straight, but perhaps sweeping generalizations help you to define your identity. The idea that someone could say, "You're gay because you were female in many of your past lives," seems rather simplistic. There's probably many other factors that combine to play a part in all levels of a being's makeup and character.

Here's just one explanation of sexual orientation in the hermetic style:

Sure, it's airy, fairy, but then sometimes so am I.

Being homosexual, I find those masculine and feminine energies you speak of to be continually in flux, and maybe this is somewhat in agreement with this Gender Freedom you speak of. It's situation dependent (or at the least influenced), and I've discovered this to be true even among some of the most masculine or feminine identifying homosexual men and women I've met.

You may offend my sensabilities all you want, Spi.  I will never tell you what you may write.

I just love that, shukaido, and want to thank you for posting it. It speaks directly to current experiences for me, and as I read it I felt a soothing caress.

I'm wondering if this also might be related on why some languages give a feminine/masculine title to a certain object or thing.

Like in Spanish:
Una silla (A chair)

The 'a' at the end indicates that it is feminine. Maybe the people behind of the languages knew a lot more than we thought.