There is nothing to seek. There is noone to seek. There is only love as the essence inside.
To love someone is to allow and accept, their freedom to create their own reality. Unconditional love supports this. Our own appropriateness guides our discernment, as to whether or not that reality is one we cocreate. Energy boundaries between realities, allow coexistence without conflict, though the contrast remains. We're all here to learn by contrast, what we prefer. Focus upon preferred reality, empowers it. We are reality creators by intending our preference.